Daftboy men's harnesses and gay harnesses are fashion chest harnesses made for Pride, circuit parties, raves and club nights. Start with a black bulldog, go bold with a red harness, or wear your flag. Every one is printed on vegan straps and handmade to order in Oakland, CA, in your exact size.
Best Selling Chest Harnesses
The chest harnesses for men our customers buy most, from Black Beyond Basic to Pride Inclusion and Caution Tape.
Solid Color Harnesses
Start with a black chest harness, then go bold with white, red, hot pink and every Beyond Basic color.
Pride Harnesses
Gay harnesses in Pride Inclusion, bear, leather, bi, trans and more flags, made for Pride and circuit parties.
How to Wear a Men's Chest Harness
A styling guide for your first harness or your fiftieth, from Pride to the circuit party floor.

Start With the Basics
New to harnesses? Layer a black chest harness over a white tee or a tank. It reads bold without being a lot, and it works for a club night, a concert or Pride brunch. Ready for more? Go over bare skin or a mesh top for raves and circuit parties.

Asymmetrical or Bulldog?
The asymmetrical chest harness crosses one shoulder and angles across the chest, the easiest shape to wear. The bulldog harness frames both shoulders with a strap across the chest, the classic men's harness look. Want it minimal? Try the ultra-thin strap.

Why Gay Men Wear Harnesses
Harnesses moved from leather and biker culture into gay bars, Pride and the circuit scene, and today a gay harness is as much fashion as it is history. Daftboy harnesses are printed vegan straps in bold colors and Pride flags, made to be seen on the dance floor.

Black, Red, White or Pride
A black harness goes with everything. A red harness is the statement piece. A white harness is made for white parties and summer festivals. And a Pride harness brings your flag to the party.
Men's Harness FAQs
What is a men's chest harness?
A chest harness is a set of straps worn over the chest and shoulders as a fashion accessory. Men wear them over a tee, a tank or bare skin to raves, Pride, circuit parties and club nights.
Which harness style should I choose?
The asymmetrical goes over one shoulder and is the easiest first harness. The bulldog has two shoulder straps and a chest strap, the classic look. The ultra-thin is a slim strap, and the suspender harness vest adds a drop back.
What size harness do I need?
Measure the fullest part of your chest, just under your armpits. Then choose XS (32 to 36 in chest), S/M (37 to 42 in), L/XL (43 to 47 in) or Custom Chest Size for an exact fit.
Are your men's harnesses leather?
No. They are a vegan alternative to a leather harness, made from soft, water-resistant recycled polyester straps with zinc alloy rings and recycled plastic buckles.
Is a harness only for gay men?
No. Harnesses have deep roots in queer nightlife, and today men of every orientation wear them as fashion. Every Daftboy harness is unisex.
Are the harnesses made to order?
Yes. Every harness is handmade to order in Oakland, CA, and most orders ship within 5 business days. Shipping time starts after your harness is made.
Can I return or exchange a harness?
Because each harness is handmade to order and fitted to your size, harness sales are final. Orders can be changed or canceled within 2 business days of ordering.
Custom & Extended Size Harness Request
Need a different fit, custom straps or hardware, or an entirely new harness design? Tell us what you have in mind!
Already know your chest measurement? You can select Custom Chest Size directly on any eligible harness product page when ordering.
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